In this video essay, we’re diving deep into the double standard idols face when they try to defend themselves, set boundaries, or ask for privacy. Why is it that the moment an idol speaks up, fans turn on them? We’ll talk about parasocial relationships, online entitlement, stan culture, and how people twist idol behavior to fit their own narratives. Whether it's a clapback or a lighthearted joke, the backlash is often wild—and honestly, it's time we had this conversation. If you claim to support your faves, you should be supporting all of them—not just the version that caters to your fantasies. Let idols be real. Let them be human. And stop acting like you're entitled to every piece of the

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