Lia, I wonder if there might be two struggles going on. Confusion and grief about the loss of a friend, and the desire to keep your parents at a distance.

You didn’t have to come here today. You could have used the excuse of a therapy appointment to get out of class and do whatever you wanted. I don’t report back to your parents unless you give me permission, so they wouldn’t know it if you didn’t show up.

I’m really proud of you, Lia. You accomplished more today than in the last two years. Do I have your permission to discuss this session?