Shortlisting Pains...
I am going through this week and finishing the shortlisting process.
As soon as I begun the process, my X algorithm decided to throw something discouraging at me! Typical social media algorithm stuff...
Someone posted a screenshot of an email notifying them that they were shortlisted for a role in a project on CCC. They said it was rude and upsetting to be notified they were shortlisted.
It made me worry... Even though I see the flaws in this mindset, and I disagree with it... I still want to speak to those who think this way, in case they are here to witness and have ears to listen!
I am sorry if being shortlisted but not cast will upset you. I don't want to upset anyone.
I totally understand not enjoying the unknown part of it... The crushed hopes... Will you get the role? Will you not??... but you cannot let it crush your spirit!
There are many trials in life, and your willingness and ability to stay strong and push through rough spots with grace is extremely important. It can be hard! I know so many people struggle with their mental health, and I do too!
Have hope for tomorrow and the new opportunities life will throw your way!
Have faith that you can take them on when your time comes!
Don't give up, and don't give in to the bad feelings that try to tear you down. You are stronger than that, and you are all amazing in your own unique ways!
You have to enjoy the small wins and be hopeful, but not expectant. Hopeful to keep your drive alive, and not expectant so you can be ready for any pivots in your path.
You will find your personal version of success if you push through the losses in life. You will build something that fits you perfectly, through all the experiences you've had.
I personally think it's beautiful that with all the opportunities I don't get, there are ones that will serve/fit me better. I hope you do too.
I wish you all the best, and I thank you again for auditioning for this project. <3
