Pam’s ex is a classic example of a toxic relationship. He is portrayed as a seducer who tries to destroy Pam and Tyler’s relationship. In a fit of jealousy and frustration, He blamed his insecurity and his temper on their relationship. This leads to him leaving Pam, but not before trying to change the situation. Tyler, on the other hand, became a safe space for Pam, giving her stability and respect that her ex never did. Pam’s ex was furious when she found out she was dating Tyler and couldn’t stand the thought of him moving on.